So often, we just tolerate the nagging aches and pains in our bodies. We’re getting older, after all, and chronic pain and physical breakdown are part of that process.
The question is, what is the purpose of pain?
From an energetic standpoint, pain is resistance or a sticking point—the opposite of flow. Pain is the messaging system that the body, emotions, and our energetic life force use to tell us something isn't right and needs to be cleared. Pain is designed as a temporary indicator on our body’s dashboard, and it’s meant only to appear long enough to get our attention so we can tune in and address our needs.
Our body cannot betray us. It is in a constant fight for our well-being and health. It is on guard twenty-four hours a day fighting off ailments, stress, and the low energy of our modern lives. In return, we typically just patch over the pain - medicate, ignore, push through, and suffer, as we believe it’s ours to accept because this is just how aging and life look, right?
Well, no, not really. That’s what we believe. Actually, pain is there to get our attention. It asks us to slow down, adjust, take care, get rest, be present, and allow emotions to move through and out of us. When we can honor the pain, allow grief, and sit in our emotional discomfort, we then act as an advocate for our well-being. From the lens of an advocate, we might see more clearly how pain and suffering were not meant to be prolonged experiences.
Pain is not the enemy of our lives, it advocates for the best experience of our lives. Listen closely. Get quiet. Ask your aching body, heavy heart, and fragmented spirit some direct questions. What are you trying to tell me?
The answer can be surprising and revealing. Is that tight jaw from something that needs to be spoken? Is that knee pain a question about your path and purpose in this next chapter of life? Is that irritability hidden grief that needs space for tears, and the full breadth of the emotion you have denied yourself? Those hot flashes, are they trying to burn away what no longer serves you? That low back pain, could it be your kundalini chakra awakening - your higher self poking you in the portal of your divine wisdom that is so needed in this next chapter of your life?
Pain has a purpose. It is not meant to be cut out, shut up, or ignored. It is intended to be honored and communed with in your heart, mind, body, and spirit. Take it by the hand, and take the time to listen. It wants to heal you and clear away what needs to be removed so that your life embodies your living wellness.
Margo | Poetic Hues | New York